When you and your significant other decide to get married, the time leading up to the wedding can seem to fly by. It’s simple to become engrossed in wedding planning and have all of your interactions with your significant other focus around wedding decisions and details.
However, whether your wedding is months or years away, it’s crucial to use this time to get ready for both a stunning wedding and a long-lasting and fulfilling marriage to enhance your relationship and make the transition to married life easier and more comfortable.
Ibukun Awosika, a Nigerian motivational speaker, says one of the greatest disservices one can do is to marry the wrong person adding that a spouse is a key successor.
She further explained that it is even more important to a woman than man because men have more room to navigate especially in an African culture where they are allowed to settle with more than one spouse at the same time.
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“Ladies need to be sure that the guys they want to submit their lives and answer to are guys who have the capacity to handle their (Ladies) lives. If he does not have the capacity to grow with you, with your vision, ambition and as you emerge there will be problems,” she said.
The entrepreneur noted that sometimes outsiders make it very difficult for spouses but in all the challenges it is important to protect your spouse.
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“Only a foolish spouse doesn’t understand that putting your spouse down is putting yourself down and the shame will cut across, sometimes those who put their spouses down suffer more,” she mentioned.
She went ahead to narrate that a wife is your God given asset that is meant to bless the union if she is allowed to be the best of herself, the union gets the best helper.
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The author further pointed out that, “the bible says your wife is your helper; the quality of help you get is the quality of the helper you allow to emerge if you allow your wife to be the best of herself, you get the value for it.”
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