There are increased cases of divorce and separation. In most cases, children are the ones who suffer more because they end up staying with one parent and just visiting the other parent for a specific period under specified conditions.
“Have you ever been married for 10 years or more then you decide it is done and start signing divorce papers?” This was the case for Linda, a relationship mentor.
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She explained that they were married for 10 years, and had lived well until it reached a point they started having arguments over and over again.
“Romance was non-existence. All our conversations would be about kids, errands, and logistics; nothing intimate. That was until one day, over a seafood platter lunch in less than 30 minutes, he said, ‘I am sorry for the pain I have caused you. I will do anything to make the relationship work. You name it.”
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This conversation changed Linda’s marriage because they deeply analysed and sought solutions to their marriage without romance. Linda came up with four ways that one can make a man listen and change their entire relationship without begging, yelling or crying.
- Stop pretending that everything is okay. Don’t cover your pain with chocolate, cake, rum and coke full amazon wish list. Accept things that are not working.
- Accept responsibility for the role you had to play. This shifts you from playing the victim. Know there are relationship skills you will have to learn but it requires an open mind.Men Aged 25-30 Should Focus on Making Money and Not Marriage – Dr Sserunjogi Emma
Photo: National Cancer Institute (Unsplash) - Take a mental break from your relationship instead of going online and finding a solution from the internet. Use the energy to focus on yourself. Do your inner growth, work and upgrade.
- Let go of control. Have relationship talks. Your man will start calling you to say Hi. The masculine chases the feminine naturally when there is polarity in the ship.Online Chapati Business- How it Changed my Life After Walking Away From an Abusive Marriage.
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“We should never focus on the problem, but rather on the solution. Energy goes where your mind takes it. So, focus on solutions in your life. Let God lead and get your heart and mind aligned and point it in the right direction. Blessings to everyone going through similar issues,” she said.
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