“Yesterday I was chatting with this beautiful girl and asked her what she always looks for in a man before settling. She wrote a whole paragraph about what she expects from a man. I then asked her what she will be offering in return and she said, she will be loyal and submissive,” Manoti Mwendia Jnr, a social media user wrote.
This comment was received with jubilation as a section of men supported it saying they were uneasy with women who believe they can only bring loyalty and submissiveness in marriage while for ladies it did not go well with them.
Agitated ladies warned that once one gets into a marriage they will understand that the value of a woman is submissiveness; what she brings to the table is just an added advantage.
“Her response to the bare minimum has no difference with buying a dog as per loyalty and submissiveness. It’s better I have a maid and to reduce the urge of getting a contractual concubine with well-defined boundaries, not a decoration in the house,” Esco William said.
Chief Sewe mentioned that women always have nothing tangible to bring to the table yet they give ironic, unthinkable demands from men.
“I would take her. We, men, should stop expecting much from women, especially in terms of material contribution. Motherhood is a burden hard enough for them. To be a man is to be responsible for all things. Loyalty and submissiveness are grace and beauty for me,” Mbuto Wanambisi Eugene explained.
MK mentioned that there’s nothing wrong with that. Women are like pets. They offer company and joy. You look for pets, they don’t look for you. I found a puppy with the features I wanted; Paid costly just so I could provide food, shelter and company to it. What can a puppy bring to the table?”
“Marriage or a relationship is not a financial transaction; it should be based on mutual respect, love, support and companionship. In the sense that, you work together as a team for the general well-being of both of you or as a family,” Carolynn Tago stated.
