A lady by the name Little Wild Woman has come out to condemn people who are not ready for relationships because of their selfishness.
She went on her social media page to explain that relationships (platonic, familial, and romantic) are selfless, saying that a lot of people aren’t ready for relationships because there’s a heavy focus on themselves and not for other people.
“It’s a hard pill to swallow when you realize it’s more about the other person’s needs. They prioritize your needs and you prioritize their needs. You and the people involved should be on the same page,” she wrote.
She mentioned that the moment someone’s like “I need to make this relationship about me,” and the other person is still giving their all, there’s an imbalance and the need to reflect and see if things will change, if not then the relationship isn’t beneficial anymore.
She noticed that even in friendships it is more about your friends than you and your friends definitely put your needs above theirs but you put their needs above yours as well because there’s a balance.
“Yes, it’s okay to depend on people that are the whole point of being human. I noticed that in the romantic relationship I was in last time, one side was completely operating off of selfishness. The relationship was never able to grow and therefore that became the downfall which leads to the breakup,” she added.
“There’s a necessary balance of sometimes prioritizing them over your needs during moments of crisis as long as it’s not infringing on your mental health and as long as it’s reciprocal like you can depend on them during a moment of need,” she retaliated.
She asked youths to always ensure they put their best to make their partners comfortable rather than always thinking of themselves in a relationship.
