What is the right age to get married? Is there a specific time frame that one needs to get married? Is it true that one can make a good wife or husband at a specific age?
Denise Rappaport Isaacs, an American divorce lawyer, explains that those who get married young get divorced young. She explains that getting married in the twenties is not a good idea, adding that they are too young to start a family.
“The best age you can think of getting married is between your thirties and forties. At this age you have evolved, you have a career, you are wiser than you were before and you have had relationships which you can use to strengthen your marriage,” she advised.
She added that with the experience with most of her clients, more men regret getting divorced than women. Many think the grass is greener on the other end that is not the case after the divorce is concluded.
Many people opposed her idea saying at 26 to 30 years old, one is mature, and if they are not mature by that age, one will end up messing up with the rest of your life, including not having good parenting.
They added that early marriage is good in terms of fertility, adding that if one is married after 35 years, chances are really high that they still may need to support their children financially, even after retirement.
“Wrong. It doesn’t have to be the early 20s. But I think age is less important than when you are ready to commit. When you have discussed key items that will come into play in your marriage like children,” Stephanie Renee Hermanson wrote.
“I disagree. If you were taught and raised right, you wouldn’t have any problems with divorce. I say mid 20s or early 30’s. You’re mature enough then and having kids at that age is better. You have more energy to attend and pay attention to them as they grow old. One is able to enjoy the children while they’re still young and able,” Chester Santos mentioned.
