The most crucial option that young people getting ready for life must make before deciding to settle down together is choosing a better life partner.
Many people who invested the effort to find better life partners are successful and happy in their marriages.
Nigerian Ambassador to Greece Opunimi Akinkugbe shared her satisfaction on social media after having been with her husband for 37 years, all thanks to her initial wise decision at the beginning of her marriage.
“I give God praise today for my wonderful hubby. His presence, encouragement, and complete dependability throughout this path have been quite incredible, and I’ve always appreciated that,” She happily wrote.
She has always urged young people to avoid making decisions based on peer pressure; rather, it’s more important to choose the right person.
A good or bad marriage can be the difference between prosperity and poverty, emotional stability and toxicity, self-confidence and a broken mind, and healthy children or neglected children. It can also mean the difference between a lifetime of happiness and decades of strife and pain.
A computational physicist named Ekta Amardeep Choudhary, emphasizes that marriage is not always joyful, stress-free, and joyous. There will always be highs and lows as well as numerous unforeseen problems. However, you must select how you will respond in such circumstances.
“First, ask yourself if you would support your partner in a dire circumstance. Will the regular family disputes not impair your love and care? Will you always put your trust in her/him? Will you respect her/his personal decisions? Will you always stand up for your partner when they need you to? Will they receive lifetime ownership of your heart, a safe place to live? Believe me, my friend, if the ‘yes’ responses to the aforementioned questions are true. You made the ‘correct’ choice in a partner,” Ekta wrote.
Article by Agnes Aboo (@wilfrida_agnes)
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