When two people meet and decide to settle down as a couple, there are many responsibilities that they need to take on, including their in-laws. Some feel in-laws are a burden, while others say it should be their responsibility.
Reno Omokri, a Nigerian lawyer, author and activist, insists that in-laws are a direct ticket to poverty. He clarified that from time to time, one could help only if one can afford it, but accepting a duty to look after in-laws is not their responsibility.
“Dear single men, the fastest route to poverty are marrying a woman who believes her family is also your responsibility. It is stupidity! Any girl with that type of mentality is a liability. And her family will result in your instability. Do not be so carried away by the thought of ravishing your wife that you do not notice that her family is waiting patiently for their lavishing at your expense!” Omokri explained.
However, there were some mixed reactions to the issue, many dismissing the narrative, saying it depends on the kind of family the wife comes from; some need the couple’s help while others don’t.
King Mark Chi stated, “my children and I are his responsibility. My family members are my responsibility. Extending his hands of benevolence to my family members is a privilege and I’ll not abuse it.”
Nwachukwu Michael asked, “what if you marry a girl who has a single parent, probably her father might be late and her siblings are minors, and the poor widow is struggling to put things in place. Will you ignore them because you feel it’s not your responsibility to care for them even when you know you are financially capable?”
Kay Chukwudinma supported the lawyer’s idea saying he hates unnecessary expenses and entitlements, especially from people who are lazy and are ready to collect and waste money.
