Zizipho Majama narrated how she dated a man for eight years. She said she enjoyed the relationship, and they never cheated on each other Although she had a five-month-old baby with the man, she still declined his marriage proposal.
“He’s a breadwinner. Still in the process of finishing his home, he’s going to the university next year for five or six years, next year there won’t be an income. I asked him to at least wait until I start working. I was only thinking about him, it was how I saw things,” she wrote.
She explains that for four years, they were both in the university and the next four were home building plus having a baby. She added that if it were all about the money, she would have left when he was building his home, and he was broke.
She further mentioned that she had a degree in psychology explaining that it was not about her being a potential gold digger. It is all about planning together.
Her followers were not happy with her move, saying rejecting his proposal was completely wrong, and it probably came to him as though she was holding out for a better guy to come along.
“What did you expect him to do when he clearly wanted to spend the rest of his life with you, but you denied him that chance? He did well by moving on. I hope he gets married and lives his best life with his wife. Truly, some women just don’t know what they want in this life,” D- Bhekza wrote.
“You date a guy for eight years, have a kid with him then when he wants to do the right thing you want a PowerPoint presentation with a graph explaining how is going to take care of his family?” Minnie Nkocie mentioned.
Fateemah M confessed that she rejected a marriage proposal because she was in a relationship with another guy. It turned out that the guy she was loyal to was not serious. Meanwhile, the guy she rejected got another girl, and they were already preparing for a wedding. “It pained me.”