Most people don’t want to embrace some aspects of marriage. It’s not just about that trending engagement and viral wedding. It’s about learning how to create and sacrifice for each other daily.
A successful marriage is not built in a day. It is built daily. It is not void of conflicts but is sustained because two people decided not to quit and work through their challenges. Success is on the other side of your struggles.
Michelle Obama, the former United States of America first lady, says marriage is complex, and many people quit marriage over things that are just part of the commitment, adding that couples cannot connect or create love if they don’t communicate.
“We have been married for 30 years. Young people should understand that the success of a marriage is when both parties understand that they must compromise a lot for the marriage to work,” she said.
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Victor Eromose said, “Sometimes, you get tired of the rings because you didn’t marry a ring but a human being. Young couple digests what they see on the social media platforms, forgetting that there are a lot of model relationships still out there, but they aren’t publicized.”
He added that many people respond to and prepare for the negatives they may find, but they end up subconsciously creating the negative scenarios because they neglected basic principles for the selection of partners or even something as being honest to themselves.
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“By persisting through the difficult times, couples can create a successful and rewarding marriage in the end. Regarding marriage, success lies on the other side of any struggles. By working together and never giving up, couples can create a lasting and fulfilling bond,” Brown Udoh mentioned.
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Joseph Jesse said all of us were born with a clean slate, adding that what we are is what we have learnt about life, so if there are bad characters and habits, we must unlearn or show effort to unlearn for the sake of our partners. He described it as selflessness and sacrifice via empathy.
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